Popular Roles & Descriptions

*Any role can be explored in either an uplifting or degrading mannerism; it is up to the voyager & subject to determine which direction they desire to travel during play. Although either direction will undoubtedly provide thrills & chills. The discovery is to what degree you will enjoy them.

For the most enjoyable roleplaying, it is best to have a keen understanding of the characteristics of each role. This section could assist you in discovering your own core identity, finding other roles you may enjoy playing & exploring, also some of what to expect from others who may consider themselves under specified titles. The descriptions here are detailing the essence of individuals on a serious note, less so those who simply want to play under the titles. However, you can use them to guide you through some expectations of your partners during play scenes as well… Most human beings are multidimensional personalities & reveals certain persona's to certain people.. For example, at work we behave professionally to customers, but are more freelace & "real" with coworkers...Until a superior enters, then we again, conceal parts of our persona.

Titles can be used as describing what “Mood” one is in, or how they would like to be treated during your play scenes. Keep in mind that one can dominate from the bottom, & even Masters will often surrender a degree of submission to their subordinates. As Lauryn Hill once sang “Everything is everything”.

Please enjoy consciously!

Labels Are Made For A Reason

👶🏿Baby🍼

Aw wook at you all messy. Let Mommy change you diapy...EEEK NOT EVERY BABY WANTS TO BE DIAPERED, bottled & spoken to like an infant!

There are many misconceptions about Babies, so let's get one thing straight: there are many levels to every title & role.

Babies are the most immature of all, but the only thing every baby has in common is the NEED to be nurtured & pampered. Cuddles, kisses, stuffed animals, softly spoken words, tender baths and considerate discipline tactics are crucial when dealing with your baby. They are most like pets. Compassion is key.

Babies enjoy re-exploring our first natures of life and typically have an oral fixation.

While traits of other titles cannot easily be spotted, due to societies variety of fashions for the feminine form, spotting a Baby can be easy. They tend to incorporate certain details into their everyday wear. Look for those whose fashions reflect the statements of youth and playfulness.

Opposing what a sophisticated "grown up" would ensemble. Babies do not adhere to fashion restrictions based off age appropriation limitations.

Babies prefer to look cutesy rather than sexy. They may drink from a water bottle that closely resembles their baby bottle, opposed to one with a straw or open top.

Small, cute, animal shaped backpacks are desired over the highly fashionable hobo bags. Knee high socks, flat ballet shoes, clothes with cartoon characters, scholastic symbols, nature & bright colors are adored. Their favorite color is likely "rainbow".

Common traits of the authentic Baby: Immature, enjoys bright colors, artistic, free-spirited, naturally hyper, Enjoys your patronizing tone, Enjoys being taught new things. Delicate emotional state, likely to harbor resentment for parent(s), Tends to be attracted to a much older or highly esteemed partner, Sarcastic, extroverted but easily withdrawn, does not dress "age appropriate", insecure.

Best Matches: Big, Daddy/Mommy, Master

Worst Match: Bottom, Dominant, Submissive

🦍Big🗣

Dominating by nature, not intent. A Big is typically a natural leader whose well versed in whatever field they are practicing...Or at least more experienced than the other party(s) involved. Though, rather they have more experience or not, a Big does not feel comfortable being in any position that makes them feel lesser.

With no specific code of conduct, a Big is not to be mistaken for a dominant, as Bigs have no real intentions besides making it clear that they are not under anyone's authority.

The best way to consider a Big is by thinking of them as a big brother/sisters...

Common traits of the authentic Big: Natural leader, Educated, Hardheaded, Self assured

Best Match: Baby, Bottom, Submissive

Worst Match: Dominant, Slave,

🕶Bottom🎓

Will likely be submissive, though are not a submissive. The bottom is there to follow the lead & enjoy the view from the bottom. Any respectable Master has been a bottom at some point, if they took any efforts to actually master any craft surrounding BDSM; especially rope art or training a submissive or other.

Common traits of the authentic Bottom: Eager student, Uncertain, Curious, May have inferiority complex; though centered around what they've yet to master.

Best Match: Dominant, Master, Top

Worst Match: baby, slave, submissive.

💊🍭Brat🍭💊

Give me what I want, or you will regret it...! This Baby is BOSS. If there were a dominant in this relationship, the Brat is it. Another persona of the Baby, a Brat would be the equivalent of the HBIC (head baby in charge); be you their Master or Dominant, you will be fought for the power position. They expect to be pampered, cuddled, kissed, gifted & complimented all the time, & they "deserve it" regardless of their naughty behaviors.

The Brat may be as temperamental as they are adorable & affectionate. Cute even when sexy, the Brat is dominating you emotionally while giving you their submission.

If you enjoy someone to get dressed, bath, order for them, strap them in their seat belt & provide TLC to someone who may still cry & is as sour as they are sweet...Brat is where it's at.

Common traits of the authentic Brat: Physically appealing to compensate for an unappealing attitude, Heavily immature, Head strong, Unwilling to negotiate so should be bribed with treats, threatened with corrective coerces &/or withheld affections. They are deliciously pleasing when they so desire. Spoiled, unpredictable, Manipulative, Passionate, Neurotic, Insecure, Feisty, Playful, Sassy

Best Matches: Daddy/Mommy, Dominant, Master

Worst Match: bottom, submissive, little

🐇Bunny

You may consider this ditzy person a bimbo! They are bubbly, bouncy, friendly, outgoing & approachable personalities. Typically an exhibitionist with open exploration desires. May also describe a Pet persona; though most commonly sought are:

Jungle Bunny: A person with darker skin complexion from any ethnic background (though typically African American) interested in group play.

*This term may be perceived as racially degrading, however typically used as a term of endearment.

Seeker of a Jungle Bunny may desire explorations of race play (not specifically degrading, though specifically to heighten pleasures surrounding skin/culture contrasts).

Snow Bunny: A person with whiter complexion of any ethnic background (though typically European American); interested in group play .

*This term may be perceived as racially degrading, however typically used as a term of endearment.

Seeker of a Snow Bunny may desire explorations of race play (not specifically degrading, though specifically to heighten pleasures surrounding skin/culture contrasts).

Best Matches: Anyone seeking to play with a bubbly babe

Worst Match: People disinterested in open play. People with great insecurities.

🎭👑Daddy/Mommy🍭

Lean on me when you're not strong, I'll be your friend, I'll help you carry on... With no specific age range, Mommies & Daddies share some common characteristics with the Master; in which they may often submit to the desires of their subordinate.

Find just one, or join a couple if you dare; either way this is who you run to when you need love displayed.

Although every diaper baby is seeking their mommy or daddy, not every parent figure is looking for a diaper baby.

Like the Master, Mommies & Daddies match well with just about any title; even other parental roles. They will guide, nurture and discipline all the same. Parental figures have a bit of a gentler approach and tend to train with patronizing methods; which is highly appreciated by the baby, as it makes them feel precious and as little as they desire.

Common traits of the authentic Mommy/Daddy: Kind hearted, Strict, Desire to assist, righteously condescending, Pampering, Leadership skills

Best Matches: Baby, Brat, Little

Worst Match: Big, Dominant, Top

💅🏽Doll💇🏿

"I'm a Barbie girl, or a Barbie boy; and just because I enjoy getting all dolled up, doesn't mean I'm gay; though I wouldn't be ashamed if I were; everything about me is FABULOUS"... Playing dress up is an expression and foreplay for the Doll. Dolls come in every sex, gender, size, sexuality and age. Feminine or masculine, the doll loves to play and be played with. They love an audience as they are poetry in motion. The music you see. The canvas, paintbrush and colors! Dolls are flamboyant and wear their stories on their bodies.

Dolls take advantage of every ensemble to express a part of their very esoteric personalities; thus, can be quite offended if a part of their attire goes unnoticed, or even worst, insulted. You are not insulting their headband, you are insulting what was on their mind. A crucial part of their being that they felt the need to express that day during that time.

Dolls love clothes, make-up and accessories; but superficiality is the real façade. They are delicate personalities and tend to be highly sensitive and guarded (though no one may ever know). Sensitive because they were deprived important things in the most delicate time of their upbringing. Perhaps his father ignored his authentic character & forced him into sports when he really wanted to dance , or her mother insisted she focus on gathering intellect and undermined her prided physical beauty.

Guarded because they crave attention; but the more eyes on you, the more critics you have; and let's face it, just because someone can see you doesn't mean they can read you, just because they can read you, doesn't mean they understand.

The Dolls adornments are the words in the book that assists them in telling the story of themselves. Dolls are purposeful, deep people who may feel more important than what society will acknowledge them for. #IWasHere-Beyonce

Common traits of the authentic Doll: Profound sense of fashion, Narcissistic, Sexually open, Complex, Exuberant, Secretive, Seemingly shallow, Neurotic, Insecure, Highly expressive

Best Matches: Brat, Little, Master

Worst Match: Daddy, Dominant, Primal

💪Dominant👠 aka Bully.

Do as you're told, or you will be forced to do so; and I may enjoy that even more... Typically, the first role chosen by an aggressive males or females who desires to take advantage of BDSM without having any real knowledge surrounding the lifestyle. Unfortunately, most who fall under this title lack the skills to dominate without harm, thus mainly seek a partner that is already submissive. The Dominant desires control and may prefer a partner physically and/or mentally weaker than themselves, with limited boundaries and experience. Dominants are vacuous predators and appreciate exerting a degree of aggression; typically utilize their subjects for personal pleasures, more so than training them for a future of higher quality. Most Dominants fancy being referred to by "Master", though are extensively undeserving of the admirable title. They can be enjoyable for role-play scenes, but if BDSM is something you seek as a lifestyle choice, I would not suggest surrender to a Dominant.

Common traits of the authentic Dominant: Controlling, Aggressive, May lack self-control, Forceful, Typically selfish, Manipulative, User, Commonly abusive, Typically unskilled lovers, Takers not givers, Sadistic tendencies, Emotionally unstable, Temperamental, Takes pleasure in disciplining, Neurotic, Insecure, Seeks weaker partners, Easily intimidated by strength, Underhanded

Best Matches: Bottom, Primal, Submissive,

Worst Match: Baby, Doll, Pet

🐻🐯Furry🐨

Just like your everyday people, Furries come in a variety of personalities from babies to Masters…. Only furrier! Like the pet, Furries enjoy playing as animals, though they tend to be more creative than the doggy, kitty, mermaid or bunny rabbit…. Furries love playing fully covered in animal costume and taking on anthropomorphic qualities of the animal of choice.

Common traits of the authentic Furry: Head to toe animal costume, Feisty, Primal, Secretive, Esoteric personas, Dorky, Nerds (if you will), Playful, Enjoys animalistic behaviors, Outdoorsy

Best Matches: Master, Pet, Primal,

Worst Match: Bottom, Dominant, Submissive

👧🏾little 👱🏾

Much like the bottom, the little is there to respect the lead of a dominant party; though not necessarily lacking knowledge or experience. littles are sweet, delicate personalities that can pack a lot of power. littles may lead from the position of a bottom, and when asserting their power, it will be done so in the most precious way. They are great for training Dominants. The greatest of Masters have benefit from sessions with littles; as they will not overstep any boundaries and can respect the Top as the leader even if the little is wearing the teachers robe.

littles are sweethearts, seeking to be respected for their delicacy. In-between the baby and the bottom, littles may enjoy being patronized, ordered about, disciplined and even owned. littles may be wise beyond their years, thus needing someone to see them for the fragile creatures they are. Commonly, littles were forced to grow up too soon, or missed out on being a child during their adolescents, so have a high degree of knowledge but will digress in maturity levels during the times it is safe to do so.

Common traits of the authentic little: Precious, Immature, Responsible, Self-aware, Adventurous, Spontaneous, Unpredictable, Temperamental, Playful, Body issues/Self conscious, Seeks partner to make them feel safe to be small

Best Matches: Littles are in the middle and could match well with any role

Worst Match: Baby, Brat

🎩Master👑

While most "Dominants" will undeservingly appreciate being referred to by this term, the Master is neither dominant nor Submissive. They will not force submission but, through skilled tactics, seduce and/or fully manipulate all interactions until the degree of submission desired is gained. Master is the ultimate leader; they have gained control over themselves, their surroundings and are prepared to remarkably elevate the life of their subject. The Master is strategic in all moves made, thus aspirations will be established for themselves as well as their apprentice, before entering an arrangement. A true Master will take on any role and/or demeanor necessary to establish desired goals (even surrendering a degree of submission to the established bottom in order to better understand them).

Master's intent is not to control, but to establish and govern a lucrative relationship. They are well rounded and assumes full responsibility over all aspects of their arrangements. If financially capable, the Master will provide for theirs as though their own child.

Common traits of the authentic Master: Intelligent, Free Thinker, Self-educated, Confident, Mature, Strong Willed, Financially Stable, Calm demeanor, Established Self-control, Leadership Skilled, Strong Negotiator, Open-minded, Organized, Skillful Manipulator, Calculated, Patient, Nurturing, Strict, May have superiority complex

Best Matches: All could benefit from a good Master

Worst Match for Master to tolerate: Dominant, Primal, Top

😺Pet🐩

Typically taking on traits of the common household pet, though deviations should always be expected, as role playing is about exploring your wildest fantasies. Your pet is seeking to be owned, trained and played with by a Master, Mommy, Daddy or Little and may enjoy customary Pet Management. They may also enjoy being captured and tortured, it depends on the game.

Pet Handling: Collar/Leash Leads, Cage confinement, Fetch play, Petting (Belly/Head rubs, gentle scratches and tickles), Cat calling, Pet names, Standard training, Long Cuddle Sessions, Hand and Bowel feedings from all fours, Discipline, Bathing, Ignored begging for attention. Given ample attention and appreciation for their unique beauty.

Attire: Collar/Leash, Ears/Tails, Thick Leg Warmers, Long Socks, Mermaid Finn tail etc. (does not commonly desire to be fully covered in animal costume).

👽Primal👣🏕

The primitive nature lovers; Premal’s enjoy authenticity, and tends to be a bit rougher around the edges. If you are looking for the one with the least limitations, willing to explore the depths of BDSM this is who you are after.

Common traits of the authentic Primal: Esoteric, Outdoorsy, Commonly practice unprotected sex with chosen partner(s), Group Sex, Outlaw, Likely to practice blood play, Polyamorous

Best Matches: Bottom, Bunny, Pet

Worst Match: Baby, Brat

🏷slave🥀

Mmmm, don't knock it 'til you try it! Just do so with someone you sincerely trust. This role can be devilishly delicious to play with the right person, but one MUST proceed with caution! The slave assumes the most dangerous role, as they desire to be owned and surrender all power. While some seek the role of a slave as contrast to a power position in the work field; often, the slave is someone suffering from an inferiority complex and needs to unleash their need to be in a lowered placement.

However, some may suffer from an elevated superiority complex & may seek a partner who can be admired &/or who can make them obey.

Willing slaves tends to be masochistic to a degree and may enjoy verbal and physical degradation.

The armature slave will likely allow hard limits to be tested too early. That being the case, it is not uncommon for an experienced slave to have lowered self esteem and/or subconscious emotional traumas. A slave may also surrender their right to safe words/symbols. It is advised to the Dominant party to be aware of potential dangers and proceed with a degree of care and caution.

Common traits of the authentic Slave: Willfully obedient, Masochistic, Senseless, Carries a need to feel useful, Emotional instability, Potential Victim, Needs to feel completely possessed and owned, Introverted, Possess the need to serve, May have higher standard for a partner, Desire to feel inferior, carries a need to be controlled, Likely does not need praise for duties accomplished, Desire to be dominated.

🏳submissive🛐

May have masochistic traits, or may lack any desire for rough handling; the submissive's main desires are to cater to your desires and be pleased along the way. They enjoy being utilized but not used, and will likely appreciate respectful orders and appreciation for their duties. Still, when playing with your submissive, feel free to be lax with using manner, or forget them all together. The submissive does enjoy being ordered with a high degree of assertion, not asked. Assigned duties are expected, as is discipline when disobeyed. However, aftercare can be the goal if your submissive has been habitually behaving naughty. The submissive may purposefully disobey commands with the desire for a corrective course. The submissive IS in control of their arrangements and are often aware of this; thus, a clever submissive will manipulate pain and pleasure distributions based off their level of obedient/disobedient behaviors. The Dominant party should be aware of this as to react accordingly.

Common traits of the authentic Submissive: Willfully obedient, Genuine desire to please, May have lowered standards for a partner, Open minded, Explorative, Enjoys treats and rewards for accomplishments, Unpredictable degrees of submission, may enjoy role playing a variety of bottom roles (i.e, pet, baby, slave)

Best Matches: Master, Daddy, Dominant

Worst Match: Baby, Doll, Pet

🤼🏽⏳Switch ⚖

First you…Then me! Hello, it’s all in the title. Switches are interested in being the Daddy, then the son; the Master, then the student. Switches are open minded, unafraid of stepping out of the box and interested in playing your role and theirs.

Common traits of the authentic Switch: Open interest, Esoteric, Dominant personalities, Playful, Optimistic, Introverted until comfortable

Best Matches: Anyone interested in switching things up

Worst Match: Anyone not interested in stepping out of their role

💂🏿 Top🎓

I may not know everything, but I know more than you…Or at least I think I do 😜…. Tops can be a “know it all” even if they know nothing at all. Much like the Dominant, Tops may gain more authority than what they deserve. They are not exactly dominant, just would prefer to be in the leadership role and do not feel comfortable with anyone expecting them to be submissive. They enjoy giving orders but do not wish to take on any traditional role or expectations of a dominant.

Common traits of the authentic Top: Appears to be self-assured, Undisciplined, Disorganized, Sadomasochistic tendencies, Extroverted, Book smart

Best Matches: Brat, Bottom, Submissive

Worst Match: Baby, Dominant, Master

👫Unicorn🦄

A third party that is interested and willing to play with a couple. Can take on any role or character.

Examples: 1.Couple consisting of two dominants in Mommy + Daddy roles may seek a unicorn to play the role of a little (baby girl or boy)

2. Couple who desire to role play Rape scene, may desire a Unicorn “robber” to break in, tie up the husband and take advantage of his wife as he watches tied to the chair.

Common traits of the authentic Unicorn: Polyamorous, Swinger, Extroverted, Assertive, Esoteric, Primal tendencies, Openminded

Best Matches: Anyone seeking a third party

Worst Match: Monogamous couples